We allowed technology to get us into this fatiguing dynamic, and it's time we used technology to get us out.
I won't be shy about it: I'm letting artificial intelligence do this for me.
When I matched with a potential date, the computer code would then automatically send her a message. I’ll admit, I haven't found the love of my life this way, but I've dated some wonderful people — a success. Dating apps have provided tremendous social value: As young people, we can meet wildly new individuals, and learn more about ourselves from the time we spend with them. We're human, and humans have been building tools to solve their problems for ages.
Pop quiz: What’s the difference between “best by,” “sell by” or “expires on”? Americans toss out 5 billion worth of food each year, often out of safety concerns fueled by confusion about the meaning of the more than 10 different date labels used on packages.
Instead of spending three hours in the evening scrolling through profiles and sending out emails or obsessively refreshing your screen throughout the work day, try allowing yourself an hour, or thirty minutes at lunch to scroll through new profiles or read emails.
It's also nerve-wracking to wait around for a response, so instead of checking in obsessively, choosing a time of day to login will help curb those tendencies. It may seem rude, but you don't have to respond to every email you get if certain people don't interest you at all.
Instead, keep your exchanges brief and flirtatious or funny, depending on your tendencies.
You can get into the stories of your lives later - think of an email as more of a teaser for meeting you. I'm a big fan of meeting in person sooner rather than later.
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It also has easy to follow analytics and an auto-optimization feature.
In exploring ways to streamline and improve the online matching process, I programmed a computer to automate selection and basic introductory conversations — essentially, sorting through potential matches for the people who were genuinely interested in getting to know me.
I borrowed from my knowledge of software development to take the automation as far as I could to see what results might turn up.